This year was My year..nobody elses MINE ~

No KIDROCK CONCERTS !Had a friend suggest to get selfish and focus on

me..leave some distance from

something and its amasing when your not right in front of the issue how much

ya actually see...its kinda wonderful in fact.. I totally love the time with my new

man (my grandson) elliot kind of puts it ALL in prospective. I realised that the

demands from the "other camp" cannot be one sided..I have some requests of

my own. You cannot live for someone else just waiting for the other sand bag

to drop...live for you...if that someone wants to share a life with ya..they will DO

the work it takes to get them there. IF not then they are really just in LOVE with

themselves and will do NUTTIN. I thank god everyday in this life I had that

person that rolled his eyes , muttered OH " F_ _ ken crap " but still rode along with

me . Once when I had news over the phone I passed out cold(first time for me)ended up in a heap he helped

me come to and helped me up...now thats a loyal sidekick ;)

Like my friend Wiggly said to me once..people come into your life at different times in your life for a reason its up to you chicky to figure out what the reason was ~ ~ ~ /______> im working on that ;)