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    need help from anyone who knows about legal actions
    Courtster says (06 Sep '09)

    ok a few years ago there was a guy who was living with our neighbors and i have never got along with this girl and then she put him up to some things some bad things and it ended with me going to the cops because of sexual harrasment. well it got rid of him for a while, and for a few weeks hes been sending me messages on myspace and then today at walmart he aproached me. he hasnt been in Jasper for a couple years and i know that he'll be back staying with our neighbors again cause thats the only people in jasper he knows. now im not allowed to even walk out into the yard alone cause he might be here its hell being stuck in the house all day. with the charges we filed against him hes not supposed to contact me or be within 100ft of me but its been three years and from what ive been told that isnt in effect anymore. is there any way i can get that back in affect?? cause i hate feeling scared to walk out into my own yard alone.

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on Sun, 09/06/2009 - 7:41pm

ok a few years ago there was a guy who was living with our neighbors and i have never got along with this girl and then she put him up to some things some bad things and it ended with me going to the cops because of sexual harrasment. well it got rid of him for a while, and for a few weeks hes been sending me messages on myspace and then today at walmart he aproached me. he hasnt been in Jasper for a couple years and i know that he'll be back staying with our neighbors again cause thats the only people in jasper he knows. now im not allowed to even walk out into the yard alone cause he might be here its hell being stuck in the house all day. with the charges we filed against him hes not supposed to contact me or be within 100ft of me but its been three years and from what ive been told that isnt in effect anymore. is there any way i can get that back in affect?? cause i hate feeling scared to walk out into my own yard alone.

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Rosaria's picture

Well then girl you tell your cousin to run that bad boy out of town...Where there's a will theres a way you know....

Courtster's picture

were workin on gettin everything taken care of....my cousin being the sherrif now is making things alot easier

Rosaria's picture

Absolutely. Make sure you save any messege he sends to you.. so you can show the police. or copy and take to a judge if you have to. Is Jasper a small town..??? and what kind of messeges were they??? and what did he say in WM... all of this should matter in the judges decission to grant an order or not... I would call your local sheriff's office and just ask some questions... like are there stalker laws in this state or county? and if so what do you need to do if you are being stalked..If there are not or they don't seem helpful.. I would then contact the state police and ask the same question..Also the cops should follow up on your call if you do call to make a complaint...They should go to his house and give him a warning to stay away or legal action will be filed... I have had to get 3 no contact orders against my xhusband....

Courtster's picture

he didnt leave comments he sent messages but i just blocked him and deleted em and didnt think nothing of it til he showed up in jasper

Courtster's picture

well here you have to be either married to at one time or a relative of the person to get a restraining order.....which doesnt make any sence but lol thats jasper for ya

he is in his 20's

DeeTheBitchOnWheels's picture

tell them about what he is doing.
they will want to see his comments on your myspace.

AnnieBo's picture

You just get a restraining order, I don't know about there, but here it doesn't cost anything. You file a paper give it to the cops and they give it to a judge. That judge will either grant it or deny it. Usually they will grant it though if they feel it's severe. But you have to explain your situation on the restraining order.

How old is this guy?

OH yeah even though it's been a few years, but because it was a sexual harrassment thing, I'm sure all will be ok. Judges don't let them guys slide usually.

Courtster's picture

he doesnt have to do anything to be refiled on i can just use the previous problem?? ill be glad to know that if he aproaches me again he will get into trouble an wont be able to bother me anymore