You ever had somebody in the past fuck you over endlessly and never have a bit of remorse for the wrong they have done you...Then up one day KARMA finds them, then all of sudden you are suspect to them and they try to say you are the cause of their problem and grief???
I got someone fucking with me like that right now....I just ain't got the time for the bullshit though...I am in a school program one in which they are interferring with. Now in the past when i was in school they aggravated me and thought nothing of it...IN FACT they wrote it off as dogging me...Now when this bitch was in school i showed respect and felt sorry for her and left her alone. Pretty obvious she struggled without being dogged...Had i dogged her she would have failed...Yet i ain't given the same courtesy...I half ass think this drama queen princess did whatever it is to herself to garner attention and also so she could aggravate me yet again while i am in school. See she is jealous....she wants in the program i am in and worked hard as hell to get to. Yet she hasn't even got a portion of the education i have attained to get there...Basically a bitter wannabe....And at the rate she is going she never will be...With her it is all me, me, me....
How about it guys you had something similar happen to ya ever?
You know, it's funny. I talk to my three girls all the time about how important it is to rejoice in others' successes, and not be jealous. It must be a mind set...even as a small girl, it thrilled me if my friends got a new horse, even if I had been asking; won a trophy I had my eye on; scored a better grade, when I studied my ass off; got the boy.... I just can't wrap my brain around this mentality. I get feeling the "man I wish that was me" thing but to what end? It' s got to be, like a "mean girl wiring issue" just don't get it!
It's too bad that this person can't just be happy for you instead of comparing and contrasting.
These types are never truly happy, because they never have the courage to make something great happen for themselves, yet envy it in those who do.
Keep up the good work, Ajay.
They are called deflectors, Ajay...it's NEVER the fault of their own actoins. Hang tough, let no one dim your sparkle. Those types pride on stealing one's thunder. Just keep doing it your way, your bound to do well. Hope it turns around soon. Just leave Karma to do her thing :)
You've got the right attitude Ajay :)
I am gonna try not to Blue. Thanks. I just don't get them or her. I don't hate i congratulate. Always had that attitude unless gave me a reason to feel otherwise. Say they were an asshole. Then i was more of live and let live. I figure life is hard enough. Why make it harder..Anyway i am gonna try to ignore her. I think she needs psychological help honestly...
Yep. Seems like whenever the group size gets to a certain point, there is always a "dogger." They rob you of that feel good chemical I swear.
My grandmother used to tell us all that these folks existed to keep us pure and honest in our intentions.
I don't think I agree. I think it's a facet of human group behavior, and a very annoying one at that.
You've worked hard and sacrificed much to accomplish what you have Ajay. Don't let her take your joy.