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    My Posting Style
    Missy says (16 Aug '10)
    How I post;))))

    I seem to get misinterpreted alot lately on this board, frankly I don't like having to put little smiley faces up, jk, lol etc. I don't even know them all. ha ha, I guess it is a necessity. I am not big or saavy (still like my spelling on that word better) on the PC when it comes to social networks. I blog with alot of people that know me in person or know what I mean and understand me. When I come to this site, I HATE that I have to explain any and all comments I make, really takes the fun outta coming here for me. I also work part/time on the PC and when I come over here 99.9% it is for fun and to get to know some people better, So I was under the assumption of having a good time and catch up on the latest 411 news of KR/TBT and fellow members.

    I have posted on this board, maybe a couple months shy of when it first opened, I took some heat, and got poked fun at alot. That's ok that's how I got to know some cool people on here. I have a sense of humor, and with that alot of people got to know my nature and intent. Am I sarcastic? YES. Do I mean to hurt anybody on here? NO and if I have I am truly sorry. I had alot of people trying to form wedges in between, on-line friendships and pm-ing Bull shit to me and some back-stabbing bitches too. I have to say for the most part the guys are mild on here. I think they just like the posted pictures that come across the site. TFF. So I know what childish means on here. I haven't got to spend the time like I used to on here and there are some new folks and fans.

    For the record in the past and carrying into present day when I have a beef with someone I am Crystal Clear when I want to call some one out and will state with rational reasons on the call-out, and usually on my own blog if I so choose, not to by any means try and disrespect a fellow poster and NO this is not a call-out. Sorry that's how I roll. So this past week when I made a comment it was meant to be funny and it WAS taken out of the context as to what I was getting at, For that I am sorry about the misinterpretation. Sorry. "Thanks and LOL" came off as fighting words, because by No means were they meant to be. So my response would of been Yes I am kidding, instead after the insults and misinterpretation, I said no I am not, because on that merit the other responses that came with held no value of continuing that conversation and was actually quite sad to see how they acted. IMO For whatever the reason is, I am not a person to hold grudges, I just learned some people aren't worth the time. Also saying that I did in the past start out on the wrong foot with others and owned up to my own actions on my part and with that and they became some of my favorite posters here.

    IMO means In MY opinion, might not be yours or you like it and thats fine. I can I agree to disagree. and Almost does not mean DID! HUGE difference. Sorry that I am passionate about certain things and on this site I learned certain topics can not be discussed articulately for me to get what I am trying to say, Some peeps run circles around me as far as their typing skills and expressing themselves, better than I can on here. With out some long drawn out stuff only few will read. So I try to keep it short and to the point and I guess that is where misinterpretation comes into play again. Yes life experiences come into play on why I might comment too, and that is some info that is sometimes not in my personal comfort zone to share.

    Also I want to state, if I comment and the discussion that was from the past, I am ALLOWED, and have a right to on here. I don't appreciate people telling me how to post, why I can post, or where I can post and how I can post.I was BORN FREE and will remain that way. I fight for things that truly matter to ME, not just for the hell of it. If people choose to fight, maybe that's their thing. I save my fights for the things worth fighting for and on a KR site, there really isn't much need for that at least for me. I do enjoy for the most part alot of the people on here and their comments and silliness. Why? because it is fun. So if this blog is taken out of the context of how I meant it to come off, Let me apoligize now for no other reason other than voice my thoughts and to let fellow posters know my intent. Thanks all, and Have a Wonderful Day or Evening depending on your time zone.

    Also if anyone has one of those little charts with the winks and smiley faces and all I wouldn't mind if you post that, Because I only know that stuff when I am IM and it shows up for me. Hope this made sense to all of you. Much love and Rock to you all!!!

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on Mon, 08/16/2010 - 2:43pm
How I post;))))

I seem to get misinterpreted alot lately on this board, frankly I don't like having to put little smiley faces up, jk, lol etc. I don't even know them all. ha ha, I guess it is a necessity. I am not big or saavy (still like my spelling on that word better) on the PC when it comes to social networks. I blog with alot of people that know me in person or know what I mean and understand me. When I come to this site, I HATE that I have to explain any and all comments I make, really takes the fun outta coming here for me. I also work part/time on the PC and when I come over here 99.9% it is for fun and to get to know some people better, So I was under the assumption of having a good time and catch up on the latest 411 news of KR/TBT and fellow members.

I have posted on this board, maybe a couple months shy of when it first opened, I took some heat, and got poked fun at alot. That's ok that's how I got to know some cool people on here. I have a sense of humor, and with that alot of people got to know my nature and intent. Am I sarcastic? YES. Do I mean to hurt anybody on here? NO and if I have I am truly sorry. I had alot of people trying to form wedges in between, on-line friendships and pm-ing Bull shit to me and some back-stabbing bitches too. I have to say for the most part the guys are mild on here. I think they just like the posted pictures that come across the site. TFF. So I know what childish means on here. I haven't got to spend the time like I used to on here and there are some new folks and fans.

For the record in the past and carrying into present day when I have a beef with someone I am Crystal Clear when I want to call some one out and will state with rational reasons on the call-out, and usually on my own blog if I so choose, not to by any means try and disrespect a fellow poster and NO this is not a call-out. Sorry that's how I roll. So this past week when I made a comment it was meant to be funny and it WAS taken out of the context as to what I was getting at, For that I am sorry about the misinterpretation. Sorry. "Thanks and LOL" came off as fighting words, because by No means were they meant to be. So my response would of been Yes I am kidding, instead after the insults and misinterpretation, I said no I am not, because on that merit the other responses that came with held no value of continuing that conversation and was actually quite sad to see how they acted. IMO For whatever the reason is, I am not a person to hold grudges, I just learned some people aren't worth the time. Also saying that I did in the past start out on the wrong foot with others and owned up to my own actions on my part and with that and they became some of my favorite posters here.

IMO means In MY opinion, might not be yours or you like it and thats fine. I can I agree to disagree. and Almost does not mean DID! HUGE difference. Sorry that I am passionate about certain things and on this site I learned certain topics can not be discussed articulately for me to get what I am trying to say, Some peeps run circles around me as far as their typing skills and expressing themselves, better than I can on here. With out some long drawn out stuff only few will read. So I try to keep it short and to the point and I guess that is where misinterpretation comes into play again. Yes life experiences come into play on why I might comment too, and that is some info that is sometimes not in my personal comfort zone to share.

Also I want to state, if I comment and the discussion that was from the past, I am ALLOWED, and have a right to on here. I don't appreciate people telling me how to post, why I can post, or where I can post and how I can post.I was BORN FREE and will remain that way. I fight for things that truly matter to ME, not just for the hell of it. If people choose to fight, maybe that's their thing. I save my fights for the things worth fighting for and on a KR site, there really isn't much need for that at least for me. I do enjoy for the most part alot of the people on here and their comments and silliness. Why? because it is fun. So if this blog is taken out of the context of how I meant it to come off, Let me apoligize now for no other reason other than voice my thoughts and to let fellow posters know my intent. Thanks all, and Have a Wonderful Day or Evening depending on your time zone.

Also if anyone has one of those little charts with the winks and smiley faces and all I wouldn't mind if you post that, Because I only know that stuff when I am IM and it shows up for me. Hope this made sense to all of you. Much love and Rock to you all!!!

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kidrocket99's picture

I couldn't get past 28 words in five minutes in tenth grade typing class, God bless you for your typing skills. Oh and my poor typing teacher had to pull me out into the hallway because he smelled marajuana on me from lunch time and was concerned about me and said that I might have abnormal children as a result of smoking. It was nice of him I guess, at least he didn't get me into trouble. We were out smok'in pinners while my mom was cook'in dinner. Yea, they were pinners alright! People usually don't know what to think of me. They either love me or hate me......and the ones who love me really love me and we laugh till we cry and can't breath anymore, it's fun when it happens. But the ones who hate me want me locked away forever and I don't even do anything to them! I can really bring out the worst in some people without even trying. I'd love to know why someday.

Miss Missy's picture

Connie Jo, you ain't telling me anything I don'y know.

I look at it this way, I rather fail trying, then to never try at all.

Just never take my kindness for weakness, I have a meanstreak, It's only comes out when absolutely necessary.

Connie Jo_3's picture

'hahaha'...lol... :)...don't even always work, trust me...people still misread posts. You don't have the body language, tone of voice, facial expressions...and people take posts the wrong way often, or out of context and miss the point entirely. Most don't mean to do it, there are those whose personalities naturally are insecure. Every now and then there is a personality who deliberately will take a post out of context, run with it the opposite direction of point, twist comments...simply for a drama buzz, or have a personality that is naturally mean & miserable, for whatever reason, who knows. Welcome to the internet HA!

Miss Missy's picture

Jade, It's all good, You get a high 5, fist bump and a handshake. TY

Ha ha the physical live in person me, well that's a whole other show. Even better in person. lol I know exactly what you mean tho.

Blue, glad you got to read this and take the time and maybe you might "understand" me a little more. It has been a pleasure also with playing with you this past week also. Thanks I think I will continue to have a good time, I wish you the same.

jade-FXD's picture

great, sounds good to me. I also think misunderstandings are very easy to have online... you just miss all the physical cues that normally would help mitigate these kinds of things and that sure seems like that was pretty much what happened.. So I'm good if you are. *handshake*

and frankly, I like conversations... I'm always happy to find another poster here that can talk in complete sentences and not resort to random video postings. so woo hoo for us! :-)

thanks to the rest of you for patience while we worked this out. have a good day, all.

bluesuedeshoe's picture

Missy, think it was really nice of you to post the above comment, most people wouldn't take the time. Misunderstandings are common on forums, unfortunately, just due to the topic matter and the speed of responses.

Enjoy your time here.

kidrockangel's picture

Chillaxin is my middle name loll.

Miss Missy's picture

STFU Angel... jk .Girl I really appreciate the last couple days on here with you. It really helped chill me out.

Thank you.

kidrockangel's picture

awwwwwwwww Im so Happy...lol

You both are such fun posters and intelligent women to talk to. lol

Miss Missy's picture

Shirlee, my advice,,,start you own blog or use the video page to post your videos.

delete

delete

delete

I am not even going to type what I wanted. I'll bite my tongue. Fair warning.

Miss Missy's picture

Jade, Thanks I appreciate that alot, That morning or should I say afternoon, I had woken up after a very long night of a mental-stressing situation. long story, not going back there again hopefully any time soon. lol Read the other blog, no comments at that point, pondered over what I was gonna write, and that was even too hard that day to respond to, so I read the comments, I was like WHAT? So I re-read my comments on the other thread. Which was rather easy because I haven't had the time to have many discussions as of late. I can see them right on my page here, so it wasn't like I went digging. I am sorry I needed the laugh, and by no means at your expense really It was like a fuc it all moment and a past KRC moment kind of thing. Like Angel explained, so well I might add. lol So I am happy to hear that you understand it was not meant maliciously. I really did appreciate the laugh you have no idea. You actually made my day!!! til you started trashing me. Sorry I did not see that coming. LMAO. I just couldn't go there that day because we definately were coming from 2 different states of mind. I was far far away from let's fight mode. lol

When I went to re-read what I wrote and that's why I left a comment on that for you and for the peeps looking in. I feel ya on the part of just having fun here and I really have not learned complete netiquette. This site has helped and hindered me all at the same time. I mean that in a good way. I am so far behind I think I'm first.lol I post on other sites with friends that look in this site also, They know me sometimes to have a gutter mouth so to speak, not really but enough. I was like am I crazy? Their response is always yes and in my defense it's a good fun kind of crazy. lmao I thought I was being really nice on this site from my previous comment from January 1 on that thread. LOL and I thought my last comment was funny and I wasn't expecting yours, but completely understand them now and where you were c

jade-FXD's picture

Missy, I am not sure how much (if any) of this was directed toward me or not... so if this wasn't meant towards me, then ignore this comment. If any of this was, then...

I also come on here for the most part to just have fun and joke around. I have other forums that are more serious and this is one of my "fun" ones that I use to relax (and chat about a shared favorite subject with other fans). From my point of view, the other day I tried to make a serious response in a debate about an interesting topic (which was probably a mistake on my part) and it seemed that someone I didn't know (you) took issue with what I said outside of that particular thread and brought it up somewhere else. In the forums and the online communications I have frequented for many many years, this is hugely bad netiquette, and I responded in kind. If in fact you didn't mean it that way and were just joking around, then fair enough... I'd rather just start over and try again--I am not one for grudges especially for something as trivial as this; I'd much rather we just have fun on this site.
If you did mean to offend me and would prefer to not ever talk again... well, then we can play that way too. I'll leave it up to you to let me know or not which way you wanna go.

kidrockangel's picture

Shirlee. LOL The difference here is I understood ever word Missy just said and sHE DIDNT THROW IN AN OFFTOPIC VIDEO JUST FOR FUN. lol

1bbshirlee's picture

I don't appreciate people telling me how to post, why I can post, or where I can post and how I can post

Miss Missy's picture

Look I am sorry about the format and I am sure this is gonna hurt your eyes to read but I am running late as it is, So I will have to figure this out in a bit. I did not have the time to play on here to figure it out the format, I am on information overload with all the different formatting styles I have had to change to. Sorry Peeps.