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Love Lostniki kat says (21 Feb '10)it sucks feeling this way emotionally drained moree everyday i don't want to live like this spinning in a bottomless abyss. my heart is heavy and shattered my thoughts and dreams all scattered help me understand what i feel fucking show me how to heal. so much pain in my life all i know is struggle and strife catch me in your safety net and allow me to forget.
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it sucks feeling this way emotionally drained moree everyday i don't want to live like this spinning in a bottomless abyss. my heart is heavy and shattered my thoughts and dreams all scattered help me understand what i feel fucking show me how to heal. so much pain in my life all i know is struggle and strife catch me in your safety net and allow me to forget.
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The storms of life are tough. In this world it is hard 2 be positive. I was raised in a negative enviroment and it has taken it's toll on me. I have learned to express my hurts in life. It helps 2 talk about them. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Then br4 u know it ur in the dumps again. This world is only getting worse.BUT the upside is to focus on the positive in life. I have 3 beautiful children, my health, a step-dad who treats me and my kids as his own. I have a lot 2 be thankful 4. Try 2 keep ur head up. I will be glad 2 listen and help u through .
Go forward, be happy, and make your life beautiful. You know, what doesnt kill us make us strong, and with kid rock music and (t)his great community there is no time for sorry!
Davelle, beautifully said. Niki kat, we're here. Don't be afraid to ask. Asking is half the battle. We've all been through it in some way, some form. Blessings...
It sounds like you could some advise that will help you heal. The first thing you have to do is to take this as an opportunity to find yourself, instead of being consumed by how others make you feel. Only you have control whether or not to let this let down, take YOU down.
You gotta take this as a sign that there is something better out there for you and that they were not the right one. period. If you don't move on, the right one can't find you either. Take the good with the bad and learn from it. You know that you wanted something more than you were given. Don't settle! You deserve better and if they wern't happy either, they deserve what they will be dealt. Not by you or me, but from God. There is something out there for you. Have a good time getting places in life. Here ya go:
You gotta take the good with the bad
Smile when your sad
Love what you got,
and remember what you had.
Always forgive, but never forget
live and love with no regrets!
Its all about the journey.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
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Life is too short to feel all this pain. Find joy in something and focus on the happy not just the sad.
By the way...how old are you? Just curious since you mention "so much pain in my life, all I know is struggle & strife".
Another thought...the mind is more powerful than the heart. Emotional pain is worse than physical pain in my opinion, based upon a lifetime experience of both. The only way I personally survive emotional pain is by forcing my mind to be stronger than my heart...focusing on the blessings in my life, rather than the curses...moving forward & looking forward to happier times.
If you're speaking of a relationship heartbreak...life is what you make of it sweetie, not what others make of it...don't let them weaken your mind, even though they make have broken your heart. :)
Without knowing you, or the source of your heartbreak, I cautiously say...
The best advice I can offer, & it's easier said than done of course when your heart is broken...try not to dwell on the negative in your life, but rather the positive. There is always positive, always. More often than not the positive does outweigh the bad, however, the bad has a way of overpowering the positive in our mind.
One way to help the positive come forward in our own life is to take a deep look at the lives of those who are struggling far worse...and, there are always many who do struggle worse, regardless. IE: a mother who lost her child to Cancer. :(
There is always a silver lining...even to the most horrible of heartbreaks. We don't always see it at first, & sometimes it takes quite a while for us to realize the silver lining within...but, eventually in 'God's time' we will. Everything happens for a good reason sweetie, but, we don't always have the ability with our heavy hearts to look beyond the bad for the good.
Pain does pass...I say this from personal experience, as I've suffered most every emotional pain known to mankind at one time or another in my life. That said, we may never forget, but the pain does lighten with time. :)